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I was watching The Golden Girls recently. You know, that 80’s show about the adventures of ladies entering their golden years. At the beginning of the show, at least two characters were in their 50’s.
When I first watched this in the 80’s, I thought “They are so old!” Rose dressed in old lady clothes. Blanche dressed in grampa old lady clothes. Dorothy dressed like Maude, who I always thought was old also. There was grey hair, aging topics, and the attitude that they were almost elderly and living younger lives. They made growing old look like fun.
The last few months, this show has bothered me. I am 51. Many of my friends are in their late 40’s and older (a few into their 70’s.) as I watched the show one afternoon it hit me:
I am not 51 like my grandparents or parents were 51.
My Nana died at 54 after a three year battle with pancreatic cancer. She died in the mid-70’s, when treatments were not as successful as they are today.
My Nana was always old. I remember her as always having grey hair, wearing dirty blonde wigs and housecoats, and acting like she was elderly. She was a grandmother afterall!
My other grandma? Same thing, except there were a LOT of mumus. She wore them around the house. I don’t remember her wearing a top or pants unless she left the house. (I will have to check with my brother on that point!)
My grandpas were the same. Always old. They both worked until they were 65, but even before they retired, they were old.
The parents were old at 40. I kid you not. They began acting old at 40. By 50? They may as well have been in rocking chairs. They traveled by motor home and they took cruises until their health declined to the point they couldn’t. But they were never young during those years.
Maybe it’s because I was a kid, or maybe it was the lifestyle of the times. Either way, I realized that afternoon watching The Golden Girls:
I am younger at 51 than my parents or grandparents ever were.
I color my hair. I take care of my skin. I work on my health. I try to maintain a youthful appearance. I work full time and have one freelance job and one business that I work on my off hours. I don’t see myself slowing down. The thought of retiring is a crazy fantasy (what would I DO?) I socialize, I DO things. I don’t sit in a chair aging. I don’t want to age. I want to live as much as possible. (Falling off a ladder cemented my need to do that!)
My friends? Same thing. We are all more vibrant, active, and young than our parents and grandparents ever were. We live very different lifestyles. We are always learning and expanding our minds. We are not waiting for grandchildren and death.
I don’t own one mumu, housecoat, or wig. I don’t sit by the window knitting and watching the world pass by (not that I don’t enjoy knitting!) I don’t even take advantage of the “you’re 50 or older” discounts that are out there (though I probably should!) AARP? I won’t join in principle. Ok, that’s silly, but I’m not mentally “ready” to do that.
I am a young 51. Many people don’t believe me when I tell them my age. I like that. I like that I’m mistaken for ten years younger. I like that the cashiers look shocked when they automatically card me and then see my age.
I like being young.
That’s not to say I’m not aging. I have less patience. I live more simply. Obtaining material things means less to me. I like wearing flats and flip flops. Heck, flip-flops are my all-occassion shoe (black Crocs to be exact.) I wear mostly black and grey because it’s simply easier. I don’t have to agonize over outfits, I just grab and go. It all matches. I enjoy my alone time. I can’t drink like I used to (probably not a bad thing.) I certainly don’t handle a hangover as well as I did ten years ago.
I’m aging gracefully and slowly.
My 51 is where my parents and grandparents were in their 30’s.
I’m cool with that.
I received my Willing Beauty box on Monday April 24. I was so tired when I got home from work that night, I dropped the box in the garage and forgot about it! Eek ads, yes I did!! THAT is how tired I was.
The next evening I remembered it, and took my new goodies into the house. I put the face wash in the shower, and I kept the rest in the box (it’s a pretty box!) I am using the HY+5 Regimen because my skin is over 25, and it needs the amazing properties associated with Hyluronic Acid plus all the five super cool “forces of nature” – vitamin C, prickly pear cactus seed oil, marine glycoproteins, alpine edelweiss flower, and deep sea hydrothermal enzymes.
Day 1 – I showered, washed my hair, remembered not to wash my face with the shampoo (don’t judge,) conditioned my hair, and washed my face. I used about a pea-sized blop of the Do Over Nourishing Cleanser. It felt really good! I washed my face, rinsed with cool water, and to my surprise…my face didn’t have that “I just washed my face and now it’s really tight” feeling. As I finished my shower and dried off, my face still didn’t feel tight. I followed up by applying the Daydream Illuminating Day Moisturizer. It felt very light. Now, I’ve been using Ponds Dry Skin cream for years, so I’m used to something heavy that feels like it’s gone by noon. I wasn’t comfortable with the light feeling. I followed that up with the Get Set SPF30 Tinted Primer. It felt a bit like makeup, but it went on really nice and smooth. It did even out my complexion a bit.
At noon I touched my face. It felt good – as in not dry or rough. At 3pm I noted that overall, I didn’t feel like my moisturizer had left the building. My eye area felt a bit tight, but that was it.
I ended the day washing my face gain with Do Over, followed by a small amount of Partner In Time Age-Defying Night Serum and Sleepover Replenishing Night Cream. Here’s the thing, I do NOT usually wear lotion or serum of any kind at night, as I sweat (not perspire, sweat!) at night and it ends up in my eyes. I gave this a try though. To my surprise, it behaved.
Day 3 – I added the Born to Glow Elixir to the morning routine, as I decided that I needed some extra umph. That has really made me feel hydrated. I’ve also increased my water intake to 80 or so ounces of water a day. Yes, that’s a lot of water…and trips to the bathroom!
Day 7 – So far, so good! When I first started, I was using very small amounts, probably too small. Each day since I’ve adjusted the amounts. It’s now day 7 and I think I’ve got it figured out. A pea-size portion of the wash is perfect. I have no doubt that I will get 30 days out of my products – possibly longer.
Day 20 – I am LOVING these products! I took pics again about Day 14. I’m going to wait until Day 30 to take another. I am beginning to see a change, and I can not get over feeling hydrated all day long.
I am trying really hard not to analyze my face every day to look for changes! I did that the first five days. Then, I decided to “let it go” and take pics again in another week or so.
Overall, I feel more hydrated, I look more hydrated, and my skin on my face, neck, and chest feels smoother.
Bonus!! I rub the excess lotion on my elbows when I finish up my face/neck/chest. I wish I’d taken before pics of them! They feel amazing and are no longer scaley!! I am also using the Elixir on my toes a few days a week and my toes are looking quite hydrated as well. Who knew??
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